In the face of criticism, God has already given you favor.
Has this ever happened to you? You launched out to obey God, gave the best of your gift, and poured out your heart. And then, someone criticized you. Or questioned your priorities.
There was no kindness in it, and you knew that comment was wrongly motivated.
But still, it hurt.
And it may even have caused you to step back, for a while.
But God, who called you, sees your heart—He celebrates your gift! And He is turning that criticism into an opportunity for His glory.
A Purely Motivated Gift
It is Mary’s offering to Jesus, and the sacrificial gift she brings to the table.
John writes, “…Mary took a pound of very costly oil of spikenard, anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil.” (John 12:3, NKJV)
This gift means more than anyone in that room can imagine!
For it is prophetic in nature and timing.
And yet, right smack in the middle of that wonder, Judas Iscariot throws in a negative remark.
He challenges Mary’s offering, saying: “Why was this fragrant oil not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” (v5)
When You are Sensitive to the Atmosphere
It is a thinly veiled accusation, and Judas’ negative words cut across everything of beauty and glory taking place at that moment.
For those of you who are discerners, and are sensitive to atmospheres, moments like this can be doubly grieving.
- In one moment, you are rejoicing in the wonder of what God is doing—and in the Holy Spirit’s anointing
- Then, in the next, you realize the atmosphere has been defiled, as the accuser has made his presence known
And someone has released words—that may be demonic in origin—into the space you occupy.
4 Ways God is Moving to Turn Criticism Around
Yet this is the power of redemption! That God can take what has caused you pain and use it for gain, for the advancement of His Kingdom.
In Jesus’ immediate response to Judas, he models Godly wisdom to His disciples, which speaks to us today. Here are four insights from this story to aid when you (or someone you lead) has been unjustly criticized:
1. Look to Jesus First
Jesus immediately speaks on behalf of Mary. He defends her and praises her actions.
And it’s a reminder that when criticism comes against your anointed ministry, God’s perspective is what matters!
Remember your Father is for you, and He’s in control, even when a negative interruption has thrown you off guard.
And that Jesus Himself is your shield.
Sometimes, we need to hold our breath and wait to hear what He is saying.
And to know, there is power in a pause!
For it enables us to respond out of God’s wisdom.
2. The Anointing Exposes What is Not of God
As John narrates, he explains that Judas’s motive is based on greed, saying:
“This he [Judas] said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it.” (John 12:6, NKJV)
Now, we can lean in to see an advantage, which is that light reveals what has been hidden in darkness!
And at this moment, Judas’ true nature is made visible.
What’s more, we can see this is a consequence of the Holy Spirit’s anointing at work.
- One person’s intimacy with Jesus will expose another person’s ungodly attitude
As Paul wrote,
“But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light.” (Eph 5:13, NKJV)
3. It Provides an Opportunity to Speak the Truth
Thirdly, the open attack provides an opportunity for Jesus to directly address it.
Criticism is an expression of disapproval. And it usually comes with some “line of reasoning”.
It may sound persuasive, but God has a higher viewpoint, and it’s time to declare it.
And Jesus says, “Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial. For the poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” (John 12:7-8, NKJV)
The opposite of disapproval is favor and the acceptance of God!
And that is your true portion.
4. Criticism Allows for Refocus on God’s Plans
Judas’s comment invites debate. And it could easily distract people from what God is doing.
But Jesus doesn’t allow this to happen. Instead, He takes the opportunity to refocus on what God is doing.
And in His reply to Judas, Jesus speaks once more about His purpose, and what is about to take place.
“Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial.”
Another Time, Another Criticism
Interestingly, this is not the first time Mary is criticized. Earlier, her sister Martha also questioned Mary’s priorities (Luke 10:38-42).
And there are other parallels:
- Both implied that Mary should be doing some other form of service
- Each time it took place in her own home (this also speaks of her identity coming under fire)
- And Jesus Himself defended Mary in both instances
And I believe there are some “Marys” who are reading this right now.
You are the worshiper, the prayer warrior, devoted to Jesus, but sometimes, you feel misunderstood.
And others don’t always value the offering that you bring.
A Purely Motivated Gift
Receive His touch today. And be assured—NO device of the enemy can interrupt the destiny of a worshiper!
For when God‘s favor has established you, no one‘s criticism can remove you.
This is a time for the anointing to pour forth—the ministry of the Holy Spirit—and He will pour out. For nothing can stop the work that humbly honors Jesus. And criticism cannot quench an anointed gift.
Instead, the full power is breaking loose out of this moment, and out of this time and season.
From Earth to Heaven—the hearts of God’s people in sacrificial worship. And from Heaven to earth—in the revelation of our Savior.
Finally, if you can relate to this today, let this word encourage you:
“No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue which rises against you in judgment you shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is from Me,” says the LORD.” (Is 54:17, NKJV)
Notes:
This example, and the theme of this post, is of an accusation that is sourced in the kingdom of darkness, coming against a purely motivated, selfless, and anointed gift. This doesn’t mean, of course, that there is never a place for constructive criticism (It’s all about the source).
For today, I’ve kept the focus of this message on the simple framework provided by John 12 and the insight I received while studying it. Which was fresh to me—and I believe is a specific word for many.
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Glory to Jesus. This was a timely message for me. I recently went through a similar challenge where in a mourning I gave inform of money and food way before our women could come together to contribute and when thst time came I gave again. One of them could not take she shouted “people like to show off so much and want to seen” and she quoted a song. I was so devastated because I didn’t know they would know what I had done, unfortunately a lady I had sent to buy some food stuff disclosed to them. A few women supported her utterances and I was done! For that reason I’m Not attending the burial. Thank for this insight I never saw it that way
This is exactly what I have experienced within the past two weeks. My pastor and his wife are not able to do the duties that they have before. I have stepped up in many roles that they were fulfilling as God has positioned me to do so. In turn, I am receiving opposition from many of the church members when I am not available to do what they feel I should be doing at any given time. The spirit of discouragement just seemed to overtake me to the point that I began to question my calling and position. This has been a transitional period of walking through the fire and trying not to get burned. I have been accused of being disingenuous when that is truly not the position of my heart. Many have no idea of what is being done in secret and I am not compelled to defend being where God has called me to be. The struggle is largely due to the accusations coming from those in the congregation who I am also serving.
Thank you for the word it speaks to me the turning point and the criticism. No weapons form against me shall prosper.
Thank You Helen for these words of encouragement. It is refreshing to know that someone else gets it! You understand what it is like to be criticized or even belittled because of your calling and gifting. It surprises me when it comes from your own house and family. Others that not as close seem to value me more than they do. I have learned to watch what I say and keep my eyes on Jesus and listen to what He has to say. It has taught me to press into Him even the more and keep my mouth shut! It is my calling and gifting – not theirs and ultimately I will have to give in account for it – not them.
My name is Pastor Zach and I am happy to inform you that I am grateful and humbled to know of your passionate faith and devoted service through your wonderful and informative site, I very much appreciate your articles and find them good for church teaching and in our small bible group meetings. And for this reason I feel to share with you and your ministry, so that our people here will benefit from the vision and teachings that God has given to your ministry. We also will love to closely work together as the Lord will guide and bless. We do some projects like that of bee keeping, glad to share pictures when you allow us.
We look forward to hearing from you soon. Would be glad to hear if can do Skype or Zoom in Jesus name.
May the Lord bless you as we wait to hear from you.
In His service
Love in His Service Rejoicing,
Pr Zachariah.