You have to know someone intimately to be familiar with the desires of his or her heart.
And you have to be in close proximity to hear your friend express a quiet wish.
But it takes more than intimacy, and more than proximity, to move you to sacrifice your own priorities in favour of those of your friend.
Only love will move you to lay down your life.
Such was the love of three of David’s mighty men who were close enough to hear him say, “Oh, that someone would get me a drink of water from the well near the gate of Bethlehem!”
Unbidden, the three warriors broke through enemy lines at risk of their lives to fulfil David’s wish. (2 Samuel 23:13-17)
How to Have Intimacy With The Holy Spirit
Those who live in accordance with the Spirit have their minds set on what the Spirit desires. (Romans 8:5)
There is a lot of talk about the Holy Spirit in Christian circles today.
Many of us have a great longing to see the Holy Spirit move, or for His power to be released to bring healing, deliverance, signs and miracles.
Kathryn Kuhlman once said,
‘There are literally thousands and thousands in the great charismatic movement who have never become acquainted with the person of the Holy Spirit, only with His gifts.’ [1]
And sadly, that statement is as true today as it was then.
So the question I am asking of you and myself today in response to this statement is, ‘Are you one of the many—the ‘thousands and thousands’—or one of the few?’
Many times we talk about ‘using’ the gifts of the Holy Spirit.
But there is another way of life possible—where we allow the Holy Spirit to ‘use’ us.
This way of living is only going to happen when we give Him leadership of our lives.
- When we so value His Presence with us, and the relationship that we have with Him, that we cannot bear for anything to come between us.
- When we are listening, ready for the sound of His voice
- When we have so become attuned to Him as a Person—to His desires and what grieves and pleases Him…
…that we will respond accordingly [2].
The Fellowship of the Spirit
May the grace of the Lord Jesus Christ and the love of God, and the fellowship of the Holy Spirit be with you. (2 Cor 13:14)
The Holy Spirit is the third Person of the Trinity—God living in and with us.
He is not merely an impersonal power. The New Testament reveals the Spirit to be a Person with will, mind and emotions.
As well as empowering us, the Holy Spirit communicates and fellowship with us. He guides, teaches, helps, assures and comforts us. [3]
The Holy Spirit is God up close and personal.
The Ungrieved Presence of the Holy Spirit
And do not grieve the Holy Spirit of God, with whom you were sealed for the day of redemption. (Eph 4:30)
Many years ago I read the story of a Chinese scholar-turned-pastor called Hsi [4]. It made a lasting impression upon me.
Pastor Hsi ministered deliverance to a troubled young man called K’ong at a conference.
A missionary who saw Hsi minister in the power of the Spirit pressed a large sum of money into his hands, as a gift towards his ministry.
Hsi received the cash without praying as to whether or not he should accept it. Immediately he felt uncomfortable.
As he went to pray about the matter, Hsi heard cries as the demonised man became uncontrollable once more.
No longer fearing Hsi, the demons in K’ong taunted him, saying ‘You have no power to control me any more.’
Realising that his soul’s response to the money had affected his ability to minister in the Spirit, Hsi went to the donor and returned the cash. He confessed that the sudden possession of a large sum of money had ‘come between his soul and God.’
Immediately he went to where K’ong was causing the commotion and quietly commanded the demons to be quiet and leave—with immediate and effective results.
Pastor Hsi later summed up this painful lesson with the words,
‘The ungrieved presence of the Holy Spirit is more to be desired than abundance of gold and silver.’
7 Ways To Begin An Intimate Relationship With The Holy Spirit
Or do you suppose that the Scripture is speaking to no purpose that says, The Spirit Whom He has caused to dwell in us yearns over us and He yearns for the Spirit [to be welcome] with a jealous love? (James 4:5, AMP)
I want to have the kind of relationship with the Holy Spirit that Kathryn Kuhlman experienced—and that Hsi valued.
If this kind of relationship with the One who is God present with you, the Holy Spirit, is what you want, here are some steps to help you move closer to Him:
1. Realise that such a relationship—fellowship with the Holy Spirit—is possible
2. Hunger and thirst for intimacy with Him
3. Learn all you can about the Holy Spirit. Study His role, purpose, names, likes and dislikes from Scripture
4. Pray—ask to know Him more and for Him to fill you
5. Make a decision to go deeper in your relationship with God—to be more available to Him
6. Desire sensitivity to the Holy Spirit—and begin to practice it
7. Allow God to put His finger on anything in your life that displeases the Holy Spirit—and deal with it
He anointed us, set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come. (2 Cor 1:21)
When I stand before the Father on that Day, He may ask me,
“What did you do with what I entrusted to you—your gifts and talents, your time, opportunities, relationships, and call?”
But there is another question He may ask that is currently challenging me:
“What did you do with the One I sent you?”
Notes:
[1] A Glimpse Into Glory, by Kathryn Kuhlman with Jamie Buckingham
[2] Recommended Reading: Romans 8
[3] Recommended Reading: John chapters 14-16
[4] From “One of China’s Scholars” by Howard Taylor
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Helen Calder is a prophetic minister and writer, and founder of Enliven Ministries. Helen has a unique gift of equipping in prophetic ministry and prayer. She is known for Enliven Blog (est. 2009), an online resource that reaches thousands of people globally.
The holy spirit has absolutley filled me. I am seeing demons in people and feeling that energy. I spoke of this outloud, and am in the midst of a custody review of our 6 year old son from my Christian X husband. I have no worries or fears. In the midst of this, I’ve been presented an opprotunity to help foster children in our community and be a part of building a mission to house them. My life’s purpose since childhood is being fulfilled in the midst of what should be chaos. The voice of angels, Jesus and the divine power are holding my hand through this all. My eyes see not only the earthly world, but the spirit world now. I am amazed, confussed and being mentored now by amazing women teachers. It makes my house forclosure 3 years ago laughable. I needed to loose my strongholds so the blocks to Christ would disolve. I was abused as a child and remember seeing spirts as a child and Jesus coming down with open arms saying “I am your father now” I grew up in the house of demons and no belief in God or Jesus. This is a gift, not a mental disorder and I am so thankful for this website. God Bless…and boy does he!
now I need to learn how to get these demons to go away and keep me protected. I got messed with by one recently and Im not sure what I did to give legal grounds. I’d love to take an online class (im in the USA). Please advise if you know of any.
I have natural attraction to anyone who teaches on intimacy with the Holy Spirit.
Jesus came to me in a vision two consecutive times and said,
”The church has abandoned the one I sent to go along side with her, I mean the Holy Spirit. Now go and unveil to the church the mistery of partnership and fellowship with the HolyGhost for effectiveness and efficieny in this work of faith, as I show you.”
The blog was a good read.
May the Lord grant you more grace.
Hi Stan, such a great revelation and word from God. It is only in intimacy with the Spirit that like Jesus, we will be able to ‘see what the Father is doing’. In fulfilling His highest purpose, that of relationship, we will fulfil the purpose on His heart, of reaching the world for Him.
such a blessing to know more and more of the Holy Spirit.has revived me,i now long for Him more than ever before.
i’ve been blessed of your deep insight.
its only the Holy spirit who has been bestowed on, the respinsibility of preparing the church for the coming of the Messiah. without Him,no one will see the Lord.because He is the presence of God on earth.i love the Holy Spirit soo much,i die to be filled more and more,till i enter the heavenly kingdom.blessings of Christ
Awesome! Holy Spirit I love.
I always want more of the intimacy with the holy spirit . Sometimes I feel I should hear from him all the time. I don’t just want to have a normal Christian life or be a activity Christian but a Christian with a strong relationship with the holyspirit so that I can be productive and effective in the work of the ministry. I believe God is taking me some where and I believe the holy spirit is with me but I just want more of him and some times I feel maybe I’m being carnal to want to feel him first before I know he is here with me.
Hi Celestina, if your desire to sense Him is from hunger, embrace it! If it is from a sense of insecurity of not being sure He is with you, press into insight of His love and nearness. Pray about it… Sounds like it is the first. Bless you.