Spiritual Pathway: How to Discover Your Spiritual Pathway

Would you like to find out what your spiritual pathway is? I have included a simple assessment questionnaire at the end of this post.

How do YOU best Connect with God?

A spiritual pathway is a way that you commune with God most effectively and naturally. Utilizing your spiritual pathway is a great tool for spiritual renewal.

I first learned about the concept of spiritual pathways by reading Bill Hybel’s book, Courageous Leadership.

In the chapter, ‘The Leader’s Pathway’, Bill concisely outlines 7 pathways. [1]

I immediately recognized myself in three of these:

1. Worship Pathway

Fresh new worship gives voice to what is on my heart and helps me experience intimacy with Jesus. It is a means of being personally refilled with the Holy Spirit.

A new worship CD, or discovery of an anointed song on YouTube or iTunes, especially if it is ‘Live’ worship, refreshes and uplifts me spiritually.

2. Contemplative Pathway

Introverted by nature I love my ‘cave times’ with God. I enjoy spending time alone, praying and reflecting with my Bible and journal—accompanied, of course, by my current favorite worship music.

3. Creation Pathway

Give me wide, open spaces where I can appreciate the beauty of creation, and I am refueled beyond measure.

My favourite pictures consist of scenic photography and on my computer’s Desktop are inspiring pictures of nature’s beauty.

my husband Malcolm, not surprisingly, is completely different from me in the way he connects best with God. His pathways are:

4. The Activist

My hubby has to be on a mission, fired up for a cause and spreading the fire. One of his favorite sayings used to be, ‘Two-thirds of God’s Name is ‘Go.’ Of course, that phrase would rile this Contemplative up!

5. Relational Pathway

No lone silent retreats for him—The Hunk takes his big strides forward when sharing and praying with other people.

Creation Pathway.

Yes, we do both share this pathway—and are blessed by times spent alone and together in the Great Outdoors!

There are two pathways I haven’t shared here. These are:

6. Serving (Caregiving) Pathway

I have a friend who has a serving pathway—feeling fulfilled and connected to God best when she is busy serving.

7. Intellectual Pathway

Identifying this as a pathway helped me understand a friend who loves hanging out with huge texts and books from ‘Thinkers’ in church history.

Others are Different

Discovering the concept of spiritual pathways has helped me to get closer to God. It has also helped me to appreciate that others do not connect to God the same way that I do.

I have learned not to place expectations on my husband, for example.

I have also learned that my spiritual pathway (or that of others) is NOT a sign of spirituality or Christian maturity.

Not Being Limited by Spiritual Pathways

As with other tools, such as personality and spiritual gift identification, spiritual pathways has been criticized by some as ‘putting people in a box.’

Personally, I think we should see the concept of spiritual pathways as a starting point, not a limitation, to perceive and discover the way God has wired each of us to uniquely commune with him.

How to use Your Spiritual Pathway to be Refilled with the Holy Spirit

Identifying my spiritual pathways helped me experience renewal when I was suffering from ministry burnout. Like other efforts related to my Christian life, devotional times had become a labor and a duty. I simply had nothing left to give to any task.

When I realized I needed to take deliberate action to be refueled, I reviewed my spiritual pathways.

Recognizing the value of my creation pathway, I began to schedule whole days to go out in the wilds, where I would pray and worship. I would return from these days feeling revitalized and refilled. This simple exercise contributed to my recovery.

Spiritual Pathways Resources:

Bill Hybels’ helpful summary of spiritual pathways is drawn from Gary Thomas’ book, Sacred Pathways. [2] Gary Thomas adds several other pathways to the mix. These include:

  • Traditionalists—loving God through ritual and symbol
  • Ascetics
  • Enthusiasts

John Ortberg has picked up the concept of spiritual pathways in his book, “God Is Closer Than You Think.”

John Ortberg & Ruth Barton include an assessment based on the above 7 common pathways in their resource, ‘An Ordinary Day With Jesus’

This questionnaire, which I don’t have personally, but was utilized in my church, was helpful. However, I did find their emphasis on the corporate (church) context rather than personal devotional life—especially in the worship pathway—a little disappointing.

A Questionnaire To Help You Discover Your Spiritual Pathway

Following is a simple checklist that can help identify your spiritual pathway, using the 7 pathways described in Bill Hybel’s book, Courageous Leadership [1].

On a scale of 1 to 5, with 1 being ‘least describes me’ and 5 being ‘most describes me’, label the following points in each group.

Add up your scores and see which pathways you score highest in. These may be your preferred spiritual pathways. Note that like me, you may have more than one.

For a more comprehensive questionnaire, especially if you are leading a group, check out John Ortberg and Ruth Barton’s resource ‘An Ordinary Day With Jesus.’


  • I love to pray with others and feel God’s presence more when I’m praying with others than when I’m doing it alone.
  • I would rather do Bible study & journal with others than alone. I thrive on the discussion that comes out of these times together.
  • I love worshipping alongside others
  • It is hard for me to have solitary devotional times; I’d much rather be seeking God with others around me, spurring me on (& vice versa!)


  • I feel closest to God when my mind is fully engaged
  • Give me an intellectually stimulating book any time!
  • My best devotional times with God have me poring over commentaries and studying the Bible
  • I love research & study; it brings me closer to God

Service / Caregiving

  • I feel closest to God when I’m serving
  • I feel fulfilled when I’m doing voluntary work
  • I am most aware of God’s presence when I’m doing something for Him
  • I am happiest when worshipping God by helping others


  • I love to spend time in solitude, and busyness drains me
  • I have a large capacity for prayer and for private worship
  • I am a deep thinker; there’s usually a lot going on inside me!
  • I would like to put boundaries around my schedule so that I can spend more time alone with God


  • I feel close to God when I’m surrounded by the beauty of nature
  • My best devotion times have been moments when I’ve been on a walk, or looking at a view, or staring out to sea…
  • The wonders of creation leave me in awe of God
  • I love to spend time in the Great Outdoors; that’s where I feel most connected to God


  • I feel closest to God when I’m worshipping Him
  • Putting on worship playlists adds life to my devotional times with God
  • I love worship times in the church services; that’s when I feel I touch God
  • If I lack opportunities to spend time in worship, I start to feel dry.


  • I feel close to God when I am engaged in ministry at a fast pace
  • I am a person of action!
  • I thrive spiritually in a highly challenging environment
  • I connect with God best when I’m using every ounce of energy to serve Him!

[1] Bill Hybels, Courageous Leadership, 2002, Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Michigan

[2] Gary Thomas, Sacred Pathways, 1996, Zondervan, Grand Rapids, Michigan

Related posts:

7 Signs Of Spiritual Dryness

How Using Your Learning Style Can Revitalise Your Bible Study

Spiritual Renewal: How to Receive an Impartation of The Holy Spirit

When Your Devotional Life Is Dry: How to Fall in Love With the Bible Again

©  Helen Calder    Enliven Blog
Enliven Ministries: Prophetic Ministry for a Revival Generation

5 thoughts on “Spiritual Pathway: How to Discover Your Spiritual Pathway”

  1. 2012 has been a difficult year and I would like guncdiae on my path in 2013 to be a stronger, more spiritual being so I can support those I love better 🙂 ktgonyea at gmail.com

  2. I enjoyed Discover Your Spirit Pathway. I also took the survey and learned that I have more than one way. And for the past 2 1/2 yrs, have discovered an awe at God’s artist abilities in His creations of the sky, sunsets, sunrise, and the sun and the sun and moon shining on the ocean. When I see them, I see Him. I see His love! I started painting seascapes, which I’ve never done before. And I thought there was something wrong with me because I love worshipping and meeting Abba, Daddy alone. It doesn’t bother me being alone. I know He’s with me and I’m not lonely. And, I’ve always felt so different because I won’t let people put me in a box anymore. Reading about you, I saw me. And it felt good.

  3. Helen:
    I have enjoyed your articles. I’m new to this website. I have one question though. Who creates the spiritual pathway? Is it the way the Holy Spirit leads us or is it our choosing?

    Thank you


    1. Hi Reggie, this one is about discovering how we are wired (created) personally to be filled spiritually and connect to God. So it’s more about how God has created US. Because we are all different! It’s a wonderful journey – no pressure or expectation, just the enjoyment of learning more about our relationship with Him

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