Text on grey background with quote God is turning criticism into an opportunity for His gloryHas this ever happened to you?
You launched out in obedience to God, gave the best of your gift, and poured out your heart. And then, someone criticized you. Or questioned your priorities.

There was no kindness in it—and you knew that comment was wrongly motivated.
But still, it hurt.
And it may even have caused you to step back, for a while.

But God who called you sees your heart—He celebrates your gift! And He is turning that criticism into an opportunity for His glory.

A Purely Motivated Gift

It is Mary’s personal offering to Jesus—and the sacrificial gift she brings to the table.
John writes, “…Mary took a pound of very costly oil of spikenard, anointed the feet of Jesus, and wiped His feet with her hair. And the house was filled with the fragrance of the oil.” (John 12:3, NKJV)

This gift means more than anyone in that room can imagine!
For it is prophetic in nature and timing.

And yet, right, smack in the middle of that wonder, Judas Iscariot throws in a negative remark.
He challenges Mary’s offering, saying: “Why was this fragrant oil not sold for three hundred denarii and given to the poor?” (v5)

When You are Sensitive to the Atmosphere

It is a thinly veiled accusation and Judas’ negative words cut across everything of beauty and glory taking place at that moment.

For those of you who are discerners, and are sensitive to atmospheres, moments like this can be doubly grieving.

  • In one moment, you are rejoicing in the wonder of what God is doing—and in the Holy Spirit’s anointing
  • Then in the next, you realize the atmosphere has been defiled, as the accuser has made his presence known

And someone has released words—that may be demonic in origin—into the space you occupy.

4 Ways God is Moving to Turn Criticism Around

Yet this is the power of redemption! That God can take what has caused you pain and use it for gain—for the advancement of His Kingdom.

In Jesus’ immediate response to Judas, he models Godly wisdom to His disciples, which speaks to us today. Here are four insights from this story, to aid when you (or someone you lead) has been unjustly criticized:

1. Look to Jesus First

Jesus immediately speaks on behalf of Mary. He defends her and praises her actions.

And it’s a reminder, that when criticism comes against your anointed ministry, God’s perspective is what matters!

Remember your Father is for you, and He’s in control, even when a negative interruption has thrown you off guard.
And that Jesus Himself is your shield.

Sometimes, we need to hold our breath and wait to hear what He is saying.
And to know, there is power in a pause!
For it enables us to respond out of God’s wisdom.

2. The Anointing Exposes What is Not of God

As John narrates, he explains that Judas’ motive is based on greed, saying:

“This he [Judas] said, not that he cared for the poor, but because he was a thief, and had the money box; and he used to take what was put in it.” (John 12:6, NKJV)

Now, we can lean in, to see an advantage—which is that light reveals what has been hidden in darkness!

And at this moment, Judas’ true nature is made visible.

What’s more, we can see this is a consequence of the Holy Spirit’s anointing at work.

  • One person’s intimacy with Jesus will expose another person’s ungodly attitude

As Paul wrote,
“But all things that are exposed are made manifest by the light, for whatever makes manifest is light.” (Eph 5:13, NKJV)

3. It Provides an Opportunity to Speak Truth

Thirdly, the open attack provides an opportunity for Jesus to directly address it.

Criticism is an expression of disapproval. And it usually comes with some “line of reasoning”.
It may sound persuasive, but God has a higher viewpoint and it’s time to declare it.

And Jesus says, “Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial. For the poor you have with you always, but Me you do not have always.” (John 12:7-8, NKJV)

The opposite of disapproval is favor and the acceptance of God!
And that is your true portion.

4. Criticism Allows for Refocus on God’s Plans

Judas’ comment invites debate. And it could easily distract people from what God is doing.

But Jesus doesn’t allow this to happen. Instead, He takes the opportunity to refocus on what God is doing.

And in His reply to Judas, Jesus speaks once more about His purpose—and what is about to take place.

“Let her alone; she has kept this for the day of My burial”

Another Time, Another Criticism

It’s interesting that this is not the first time Mary is criticized. Earlier, her sister Martha also questioned Mary’s priorities (Luke 10:38-42).
And there are other parallels:

  • Both implied Mary should be doing some other form of service
  • Each time it took place in her own home (this also speaks of her identity coming under fire)
  • And Jesus Himself defended Mary in both instances

And I believe there are some “Marys” who are reading this right now.
You are the worshiper, the prayer warrior, devoted to Jesus—but sometimes, you feel misunderstood.
And others don’t always value the offering that you bring.

A Purely Motivated Gift

Receive His touch today. And be assured—NO device of the enemy can interrupt the destiny of a worshiper!

For when God‘s favor has established you, no one‘s criticism can remove you.

This is a time for the anointing to pour forth—the ministry of the Holy Spirit—and He will pour out. For nothing can stop the work that humbly honors Jesus. And criticism cannot quench an anointed gift.

Instead, the full power is breaking loose out of this moment, and out of this time and season.
From earth to Heaven—the hearts of God’s people in sacrificial worship. And from Heaven to earth—in the revelation of our Savior.

Finally, if you can relate to this today, let this word encourage you:

No weapon formed against you shall prosper, and every tongue which rises against you in judgment you shall condemn. This is the heritage of the servants of the LORD, and their righteousness is from Me,” says the LORD.” (Is 54:17, NKJV)


This example, and the theme of this post, is of accusation that is sourced in the kingdom of darkness, coming against a purely motivated, selfless, and anointed gift. This doesn’t mean, of course, that there is never a place for constructive criticism (It’s all about the source).
For today, I’ve kept the focus of this message on the simple framework provided by John 12 and the insight I received while studying it. Which was fresh to me—and I believe is a specific word for many.

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48 thoughts on “God’s Favor FOR You is Greater Than Criticism Against You”

  1. Oscar Castaneda

    Accusation hurts especially coming from a love one or member of your family. No amount of explanation can persuade or change their mindset.
    Only Jesus can change people’s heart and bring about the promised salvation.
    I am standing on the Word of God on His promise of family salvation: Believe in the Lord Jesus Christ and you will be saved, you and your family.
    I believed therefore I declare it. The Word of God is alive and active and will not return to Him void, it will do the work for which it was sent.
    To God be the glory in Jesus Name.

    1. Helen Calder

      I’m saying yes and amen with you right now, Oscar, changed hearts and salvation in Oscar’s family, in Jesus’ Name

  2. Promise Bennett

    Thank you ma, I’m in this situation presently and I don’t know what to do.
    My church pastor gave me 2 options, if I have a ministry I should not participate in anything in the church. Or I should close the move I’m pioneering and join the church
    Now I don’t know what to do.
    I need guidance.
    I really want to join the church revival.

  3. Nomathamsanqa Clark

    Dear Helen
    Glory to Jesus this prophetic is talking of my situation ,at the church l am attending ,l was criticized by the Apostle for using the word of God in my testimony saying indeed God loves us unconditionally for to me inspite of multitude if sins God seemed to cover it all up and made me excell in the name of works of faith,he said he never heard of such word of God as that He covers multitude of sins…
    Again some other time l was praising God for His love for me,and his wife the prophet told me to take only 5 minutes for whatever l have to say….
    Lastly the daughter of the house ,their biological daughter asked for people who have the testimony,l had one for God healed my mother who was gravely ill , as l approached to the alter she told me to take only two minutes ,l felt like turning back without a word but with the help of the Holy Spirit l managed to reach and talk… all this has hurt me and l felt like pulling away ? from the church but now as you prophecy l am encouraged and directed forward. May God enlarge you

  4. Praise God this was for me iam going through alot of criticism but thank God for this message

  5. This Word from the Lord came at just the right time. I had been wrestling with a very negative comment said in front of others by someone I had considered a dear friend. I was crushed; to say the least – I couldn’t, for the life of me, figure out where this was coming from. I was encouraged in my heart to simply forgive…don’t go trying to digest nor figure the “why” about it all; simply forgive.

    Then your email came! My heart is overjoyed at the gracious and kindness of God. I will continue the work of Christ and lift my head up and move forward.

    Thank YOU for being obedient; truly, my heart is glad.

    1. Helen Calder

      Yes! How wonderful is the grace of God, He knows just when to minister His assuring words.
      God bless you Lisa, you are loved, honored and highly favored by God.

  6. I love that you ended with Isa 64:17, “No weapon formed against you shall prosper and every tongue which rises up against you in judgement you shall condemn.” I use this frequently when involved in intense intercession. Often, I will also add from Heb. 8: 6, saying that as good as the Old Testament promise is, we are possessors of a better covenant based on better promises. This is so much a part of the Heart of the Lord. He always does more and gives more, because He is More…
    Our God is an Awesome God!
    Kind regards, Sue

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